Memorial Stories
Nina’s Story
The following story was told to the artist by Cynthia Thompson, 2003.
Nina was kind to my brother and I. She didn't have any children and she did not have children of her own. I imagine that was sad for her. She had a dachshund dog, "Toby,” that she doted on. I remember her as being very glamorous, and she wore designer clothes. She was petite, and met her husband when she was a swimsuit model. I fit in her clothes to give you an idea of her height, but I imagine she was even slimmer when she was younger. She was very blonde with bright blue eyes and a European accent. This was her jacket.
Marian’s Story
The following story was told to the artist by Roxann Stettler, 2013.
My Mom had many talents. Sewing clothes for her family was one of them. She made matching dresses for me and my sister (we were not twins) for special occasions. She could create patterns for her own clothes. Mom made my brothers’ shirts. She was a mender of socks and could tend to a loose button or snap in a minute. She did all of these things out of necessity and out of love for all of us. She took pride in her work. She always stitched a personalized tag marked ‘original,’ on the inside of each garment she created. Like the one on this muumuu, the tag indicated that the garment was made by her, complete and could now be worn.
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Charlene’s Story
The following story was told by Glenn Grishkoff, 2018.
Early on in Char’s teaching career, she taught her students how to make their own shoes from leather and from a multitude of found materials resulting in one-of-a-kind wearable fashion statements. I was one of her lucky students. This intimate approach to hand-sewing and the design process captivated us. Through it, we discovered that wearing what one creates becomes a highly unique, personally defining experience.
Char ignited in me what became a playful passion for shoemaking. Because of her teaching and her ongoing mentorship, my confidence as an artist and educator blossomed. To this day, not only is shoemaking an integral part of my practice, but also, I teach my own students the craft of making shoes from leather. My handmade shoes are a unique extension of my own physical body. When someone sees me wearing them and realizes that I made the shoes, I hope that they feel connected to the primal instincts we all have to become one with what we wear on our bodies.
Charlene gave me the gift of learning how to teach my creative soul to fly, inspiring me to view art making and teaching as a way of life. In Char’s eyes I was an artist and not just another student passing through her classroom. Charlene lived her life day by day with a sense of fearless wonder and discovery. Her infectious love of clothing and adornment was her passion and a major expression of her artistic aesthetic and stoic confidence both as an artist and educator. She instilled in me the idea that success of any type is achieved through hard work, a positive attitude, perseverance and the sense that I have a purpose in the journey of life.
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Fay’s Story
The following story was told to the artist by Karra Dodge, 2006.
An essential item to help a person through life on a hot summer day would be a lightweight, one hundred percent cotton blouse. Even better, according to my grandma, would be if that lightweight, one hundred percent cotton blouse had mother of pearl buttons, three-quarter length sleeves, a Peter Pan collar, and a little bit of floral pattern embroidery. I can remember my grandma wearing this blouse on a hot summer day in her kitchen while making lunch for the two of us. A Summer salad that she invented herself, not following a recipe. My grandma had a quiet strength and perseverance. She was helpful and kind, and loved our family. My grandma had style. Just like the white blouses she wore with the mother of pearl buttons. She wore the garment for 10 years or more and alternated wearing this one with her many other white blouses.
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Ursula’s Story
The following story was told to the artist by Susannah Cremer-Bermbach, 2013.
My mother's red and white striped dress: My mother's dress shop held a great attraction for me as a child. I could spend hours trying on and off her dresses, skirts, blouses, scarves, belts, shoes, hats, bags in ever-changing combinations (and usually left a big mess afterwards, much to my mother's annoyance). And I made up stories to go with it.
I first discovered the red-and-white-striped dress in a photo taken in the early 1950s: a summer picture with my light and buoyant mother in her mid-twenties, on the arm of her cousin, who was always very elegantly dressed. By the time I was born in the late 1950s, she had long since stopped wearing the dress. But she had kept it. I discovered the long-forgotten dress many years later in an old dresser and immediately fell in love with its pattern. My mother gladly let me have it. The dress fit halfway, but the cut with the wide swinging skirt typical of the 1950s didn't look so good on me.
Sometime in my mid-twenties, I began to cut off the skirt and sew it unruffled to the slim-fitting top. Since my sewing skills didn't extend very far, the makeover was only half successful. Also, the light fabric had already become very friable in some places. I wore the dress only a few times and then put it aside.
When I met Jane Brucker and learned her “Memorial Project,” I quickly realized that I wanted to participate with this dress. Because here it is not about the garment in its function, but in its uniqueness as the bearer of a story, a relationship, a dream, and is expressed as such.
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Das rotweiß-gestreifte Kleid meiner Mutter: Der Kleiderschank meiner Mutter übte auf mich als Kind eine große Anziehungskraft aus. Ich konnte stundenlang ihre Kleider, Röcke, Blusen, Schals, Gürtel, Schuhe, Hüte, Taschen in immer wieder neuen Kombinationen an- und ausprobieren (und hinterließ anschließend meist ein großes Durcheinander zum Ärger meiner Mutter.) Und dazu dachte ich mir Geschichten aus.
Das rotweiß-gestreifte Kleid entdeckte ich zunächst auf einem Foto, das Anfang der 1950er Jahre aufgenommen worden war: ein Sommerbild mit meiner leicht und beschwingt wirkenden Mutter in ihren Midzwanzigern, am Arm ihrer stets sehr elegant gekleideten Kusine. Als ich Ende der 1950er Jahre zur Welt kam, trug sie das Kleid schon lange nicht mehr. Aber sie hatte es aufbewahrt. Ich entdeckte das längst in Vergessenheit geratene Kleid viele Jahre später in einer alten Kommode und verliebte mich sofort in sein Muster. Meine Mutter überlies es mir gerne. Das Kleid passte halbwegs, aber der Schnitt mit dem für die 1950er Jahre typischen, weit schwingenden Rock gefiel mir nicht so gut an mir.
Irgendwann in meinen Midzwanzigern begann ich, den Rock abzutrennen und ihn ungekräuselt an das schmal geschnittene Oberteil anzunähen. Da meine Nähkünste nicht sonderlich weit reichten, gelang die Umarbeitung nur halb. Auch war der leichte Stoff an einigen Stellen schon sehr mürbe geworden. Ich trug das Kleid nur wenige Male und legte es dann beiseite.
Als ich Jane Brucker kennenlernte und von ihrem Memorial Project erfuhr, war mir schnell klar, dass ich mich mit diesem Kleid daran beteiligen möchte. Denn hier geht es nicht um das Kleidungsstück in seiner Funktion, sondern in seiner Einzigartigkeit als Träger einer Geschichte, einer Beziehung, eines Traums, und wird als solcher zum Ausdruck gebracht.
Noni’s Story
The following story about Noni was told to the artist by Caroline Gerardo, 2001.
This shirt was gifted to me from my children’s paternal Great Grandmother who was fondly called Noni. It is the only piece of her that we own. Lena Barbeau (Noni) was a woman with a zest for life. During summers until Noni was eighty-five, she could be found on the south side of the Santa Cruz Wharf in a string bikini. Noni created jewels out of vegetables, decorated holidays with joy, and appreciated beauty. Noni’s Great Depression sensibility taught me not to waste the flour when creating biscotti and how to dip only the tip in white wine. “A glass of wine with dinner, for the soul.” Noni said. “Harry wore this, you know, my brother who was killed in a hunting accident,” she said when she found the shirt wrapped in an envelope the year before she died. The shirt fit a toddler boy, about age three. Though Noni claimed her brother Harry once wore it, I do not think that was real. I received the gift just before she was sent to assisted living in a dark tunnel of memory. Because the shirt had a ghostly feel, I never put it on my blonde-haired boy. I planned to frame the shirt with the embroidered red ponies and build a Western theme room like in some Presidential library. My children are seventh generation Californians, we are familiar with homespun stories of buckaroos. We share a piece of the cowboy past of my family and the secret recipe for the “cantucci” (biscotti).
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This is a Christmas recipe:
Ingredients:
½ cup almond oil
1 cup white sugar
3 ¼ cups all purpose flour
3 eggs
1 tbsp baking powder
1 tsp anise seeds
1 tsp anise extract
1/2 tsp almond extract
1 tsp real vanilla
1 cup salted almonds
Grease for cookie sheet.
Instructions: Preheat oven 375 degrees. Mix dry ingredients, setting aside 1 of the 3 cups of flour. Beat by hand the eggs, oil, extracts until smooth, add sugar and beat with fork until combined, about 1 min. Cut the almonds with a sharp knife into 3 diagonal slices, yes cut each one. Reserve the cup of flour and mix all the wet and dry ingredients BY HAND. Do not handle too much or knead the dough, it should be cold. The tricky part: Add half of the remaining cup of flour to get the dough to feel sticky like playdough and dryer than toothpaste. The amount of flour depends on humidity of your kitchen. There is a balance of not touching the dough too much, refraining from eating raw eggs, and now sharing a glass of wine. Use the remaining flour, sprinkle your board and roll the dough into one rectangle. About 1” thick. Grease a cookie sheet and move it to the cookie sheet. Bake 25 min. Cool to touch. Cut diagonally into ½” slices. Put back on cookie sheet. Bake one side for 6 min. Remove from oven. Carefully turn the cookies to other cut side. Bake 5 min. The cookies should be golden. Cool and enjoy the nuts that escaped with a dry white wine.
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Marcos’ Story
The following story about Noni was told to the artist by Walter O'Neill, 2022.
Marcos was a truly sweet man, who only saw the good in people. Born outside of Sao Paulo, Brazil, he practiced medicine in Sāo Paulo for decades before emigrating to the United States and settling in New York in 1997. He loved everything about America, including our positive outlook on life. On September 11, 2001, he volunteered his services at Vincent's Hospital. He was distraught that he and other volunteer doctors waited in vain for survivors. This was Marcos’ favorite blue shirt.